Thanksgiving 2020. A far cry from the 2019 day of grace and turkey. This year, Thanksgiving is a day of reflection, centered around gratitude always, but also tainted by the melancholy over the loss and…

My friend Liz used the words Grace and Fire to describe me the other evening. I was intrigued: first time I had heard these two words strung together to define me. Liz and I have…